Happily Single: Interview with Priscilla

Girls, I am so excited to introduce you to my sweet friend, Priscilla! She a close friend, mentor, and sort of adopted older sister to me, and I have gotten to see an up-close view of the practical living of a poured-out, vibrant single life in Priscilla. She is 32 years old, and although she would welcome marriage and motherhood, she is fully engaged in the life God has given her now.

I asked Priscilla to do an interview for this post, and I’m so excited to share with you all a bit of her story and heart. I think you’ll feel her sweet spirit emanating as she shares. My hope is that you will be inspired to live to the hilt whatever life God has given you TODAY!

Without further ado, here’s the interview! (My questions in italics, her answers in bold)

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Allison: Have you ever struggled with being single?

Priscilla: Yes, I struggled more so in my late teens early twenties. Now, I’m at a point of total bliss and contentment. Praise Jesus!

What has helped you to reach an attitude of delight and gratefulness for this single season?

Delighting in Jesus instead of my desires, dreams, or wishes.

Flexibility-embracing God’s best for each day.

Anchoring my life in God’s Word and in Truth.

Living a dynamic life with purpose and passion, to the full.=)

Lovingly, Joyfully surrendered to Him.

What skills have you learned as a single woman?

Friendship

Interpersonal relationships

Nursing

Gourmet cooking

Personal finances (understanding how adopting a frugal lifestyle will earn me pennies)

Maintaining a budget and investing dollars

Leaning about other cultures

Physical activity/sports

Organization

Developing a sense of fashion with modesty

How have you actively pursued serving God and embracing His mission for you as a single woman?

I have made myself available to God first, my family and others. I’m willing to serve wherever God opens a door.

Eight years ago God opened the door for me to study nursing. God is using this career in mighty ways. It’s a blessing in my life and with that I want to bless and serve others.

I believe hard work is foundational to being a successful women.

Hard work is a good and godly thing. Ecc 9:10a….”Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might.”

I love participating on the family farm!

I did some volunteering and serving in foreign countries…..and look forward to more in the future.

What things have you done to further the Gospel and serve the least of these (poor, widows, orphans, sick, etc)?

In 2013 I had the privilege to serve (for a brief time) at a food bank in Israel. I helped with packing food boxes and food distribution.

Showing love by baking or cooking for disadvantaged families/widows, sick neighbors/friends.

Sitting down and giving a listening ear to someone that is discouraged/not well and needs to talk.

Going out for ice-cream or coffee with co-workers.

In 2015 God opened the door for assisting my friend with her vision for young womens retreats in Iowa.

2016 Mexico– young womens retreats.

2017 volunteered/served 2 weeks at Kaplan Medical centre in Israel and 2 weeks at the Rehovot congregation in Israel.

Have there been any times in your single life thus far that have been especially challenging and why?

One thing that I find challenging is balancing independence/freedom and at the same time honoring my parents. Let me explain….at a certain age in life parents should pull back and allow freedom to “responsible adults” (age can vary).

Ultimately, me as a single adult must give an account to God, with my actions and how I live my life. In my case, with living at home well into my 30’s, I had to make a serious commitment to God. I respect and honor my parents and still live an independent life, with my Saviour and anchored in God’s Word.

What is your favorite thing about being single?

No stress! =)) not true.

It’s an AMAZING adventure!

Spending time in the Word. Prioritizing my time with the Lord.

Embracing mentorship and accountability.

Giving God the first fruits of my day.

Spending quality sibling time!

Building friendships.

Living the adventure.

Getting busy serving others.

Meeting and learning new cultures.

Stepping out of my comfort zone.

And just living a vibrant and zestful life to the full…..it just gets better and better!

What is the biggest lesson you have learned during the last ten years?

WAIT and SURRENDER.

There is a God who makes “everything beautiful in HIS time.” Eccl 3:11

I had and still have many visions (not limited to marriage) and I am witnessing first hand the fact that life-changing ministry can only happen when I lay down my own agenda and surrender to His. God has a purpose and a plan and God gives visions, then He takes us down to the valley to batter us into the shape of the vision, and it is in the valley that so many of us faint and give way. Every vision will be made real if we will have patience.

God had to shape and batter me and is still working on me. My story is being written right now, and the choices I make TODAY will affect how it ends.

I want to finish strong with the Lord’s help.

He is worthy of my everything.

These final six words should be the goal of every Christian’s life. “Well done, good and faithful servant.” Matt 25:23

I will close with two amazing quotes….

“Be inspired with a vision for what is possible when you leave the pen in God’s hands.”

“Peace does not dwell in outward things, but in the heart prepared to wait trustfully and quietly on Him who has all things safely in His hands.”  —  Elisabeth Elliot

My dear friend… God is for you. When we can’t, He still can.

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If you enjoyed this post, leave a comment (top of post) letting Priscilla know you were blessed! 

-Allison

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10 Comments

  1. Love this post!! Priscilla, you are such a good example of living life to the fullest for the Lord! I love this quote that you shared: “Be inspired with a vision for what is possible when you leave the pen in God’s hands.” So good!!!

  2. Thank you for this post! What an encouragement and joy it is to hear of another sister in Christ’s testimony of seeking and living for Jesus!

  3. Thank you so much! I love how joyful this blog is. Thanks for the emphasis on LIVING our single years to their fullest. This is not a time of waiting for life to begin, but rather a time to capitalize on the stage of life that is God’s will for us at this time. Thank you so much, Priscilla, for being an example of this! This post is such a fantastic, refreshing perspective. Fabulous testimony! Thank you!

  4. Priscilla, this was such a lovely story to read of your living life for Jesus Christ- it was very encouraging to read that you are living a godly life not as the goal to “live godly to attract a godly man” but desiring to grow in your relationship with God and to live righteously before Him, keeping Him first place, because He is truly the only one who fills and satisfies!Being able to come to Him with all our desires, and longings. I love these verses in Psalm 91…
    “Because he hath set his love upon me, therefore will I deliver him: I will set him on high, because he hath known my name.
    He shall call upon me, and I will answer him: I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him, and honour him.
    With long life will I satisfy him, and shew him my salvation.”
    We do serve an amazing God who loved us first so we could be able to love Him! Blessings to you in your nursing career + life 🙂

  5. hello,

    I’m 35 and single, and living a “not normal” life of traveling the country to serve those in our fellowship like widows, moms with new kids, etc. In between these placements by Him, I love being at home and helping my family.

    Such is a life of faith, but the Lord always always always provides. He tests faith, yes, but He then rewards it.

    I love your advice: WAIT and SURRENDER.

    Your post is SO good, and brought tears … thanks =)

    in Him,
    Amy in NY

  6. I am so blessed to know you both! Pris, your heart for those around you is beautiful + you model radiant singlehood in a precious way. Jesus is SO first in your life, and that shows. <3<3

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